Heat 4 1/4 cups of water in large saucepan. When boiling add carrots and cook until just tender.
Add Gits mix and stir ensuring all is dissolved.
Add chopped tomatoes and cook until they begin to break down.
Add okra and cook until okra just becomes soft (5-10 mins)
Heat a small fry pan. When hot, add the ghee, moving the pan to melt it.
Add the red chilis and mustard seeds, continuing to shake the pan so that nothing burns.
When the seeds begin to pop, turn off the heat and add the tempered ghee to the sambhar mixture (careful! It will sputter!)
Cook for a few mins longer.